KELEKATAN AMAN (SECURE ATTACHMENT) TERHADAP IBU DAN KEMANDIRIAN PADA ANAK DI TAMAN KANAK-KANAK RYAADHUL JANNAH SUMBAWA BESAR

Abstract

Children are gifts from God who are mandated to be cared, guided and educated who become good person in the future. This research is about secure attachment. Secure attachment is an emotionally safe relationship between parents and children as a basic for development that consistently plays a role in children's psychological development. The research is focus to independence of children. Independence is an attitude of autonomy which a person is relatively free from the influence of the judgments, opinions and beliefs of others. Research methodology to be used is descriptive qualitative research method. Informants were chosen based on several criteria that has been set, and were in purposive have based on initial information obtained. The informants are 3 students in a kindergarten Riyaadhul Jannah Sumbawa the criteria is children attending riyaadhul, and accompanied by their mother at school.   The results of this research were that of the three subjects. Researcher found that one of the subjects, namely M, had a different secure attachment and independence compared to other subjects. Because the subject is better able to take care of their personality, while the other two subjects have more attachment to their parents. This is shown when the subject is near the subject's mother, whether it is in the school environment or the home environment. Therefore, parents can foster children's self-confidence which will lead to children's independence at school as well as when the child is at home. Attention, support from parents can provide positive energy for children